It is not about the air conditioning ...

Phone rings. 6PM. "Bailey ripped open the duct on the central air when she was chasing after her ball. The house is about 91 degrees. I don't know anything about fixing AC."

"Why don't you call someone and ask for help."

"OKAY"

Three hours later.

"I fixed it. Lots of cold air blowing inside now. FEELS GREAT"

"Did you get help from anyone?"

"Nope - did it myself."

FEELS GREAT. I knew those words were not so much about the air conditioning. It was about accomplishing something. Alone. That which you were not sure you could do. But when it is all over and you look back, ....it FEELS GREAT